I don't know why I came to your memorial for your lovely daughter but I thought what a sweet smile she had. I was here to write in my son in laws memorial, I don't know how or if I could cope with losing my child as you have, our grief for our son in law overwhelms us at times & we should not be burying our children, it's not how it's meant to be. My heart truly goes out to you both & to Cheryl's husband. Carole xxx Carole how saddenend we are to read of your own story why these terrible things happen we will never truly accept or understand, we thank you so much for your kindness in talking so compassionately of our precious girl and we in turn send our prayers and thoughts to you..Life will never be as it once was losing children albeit they were grown we have lost too much ..Thank you again from us Marion Ian Alistair