I have just visited Cheryl's memorial site again just a few days after her birthday. I can feel the pain that Ian,Marion and Alistair must be feeling, but you must believe that your darling Cheryl is right beside you as Wend is close to me. Just because we can't see them it doesn't mean they are not there. Cheryl will always be watching over you and feeling your love reaching out to her. Talk to her and she will hear you, laugh and she will laugh with you. I know we will never get over losing our beautiful girls, but we will learn to live with that loss because that is what they would want and expect from us. Although the years may pass until we are reunited, for Cheryl and Wend it will be but a moment as where they are there is no time, just one perfect sunny eternal day where we all be reunited in our love. God Bless you all Ian, Marion and Alistair. Your friend always, Ian